I’ve struggled with acne and an uneven skin tone ever since I was a 14-year-old Form One student. PHOTO | FILE
I’ve struggled with acne and an uneven skin tone ever since I
was a 14-year-old Form One student. On and off rashes, whiteheads and
blackheads. You know, the usual. But the most glaring of them all has
had to be the uneven skin tone. I’ve tried all kinds of products to even
it out to no avail. I’m currently at a place where I’ve made peace with
the fact that my face will never be evenly toned and moved on. I mean.
There are much more important things to worry about…like world
peace...yes? Anyway, throughout that struggle I’ve encountered all kinds
of people. Ranging from the terrible “I pity you” to the disgusted “I
can’t believe you’d neglect your face to that extent ”. Here are a few
that I’ve encountered.
NO THANKS, I DON’T NEED TO BE SAVED
These
are the people who assume that simply because you have acne, you
automatically fall in the victim category and need to be saved. Some
will offer all kinds of advice; indirectly, of course, lest they offend
you. A plus for them; they make an attempt, albeit failed sometimes, to
not hurt your feelings. These are the type who in an attempt to offer
comfort for your ‘suffering’ will furnish you with tales of people they
know who used a certain product that worked wonders and offer to link
you up.
DON’T STARE SO INTENTLY AT MY FACE, IT’S NOT A MUSEUM
You
know that picture of an old lady in a young lady and vice versa that
you have to look at closely to see both? Well that’s the same kind of
intensity that these ones behold you with. I once had a lady I was
introduced to shake my hand for nearly a minute while staring intently.
At first, I thought she knew me from somewhere and was trying to recall
where until I realized that she was staring at my oily acned face!
DON’T SEND ME GOOGLED ARTICLES, I HAVE INTERNET ACCESS
These are the proverbial know-it-alls and
fixers. They are a graduated version of the ‘poor yous’ The former might
furnish you with advice but these ones will bombard you with it. I’ve
heard it all. From clay masks to acne soaps and creams. These ones take
it a notch higher by sending you articles from Google(as if you don’t
have access to it yourself) on how to deal with acne and even proceed to
follow up on whether you’ve gone ahead to ‘invest’ in the said
products!
THE DIGUSTED EXPRESSION ON YOUR FACE HELPS NOBODY
I
have to warn you…these ones are savage. They do not hide their disgust
at what they deem to be negligence and poor hygiene/eating habits. To
them, acne is a self-inflicted condition that can be kept at bay by
taking certain corrective actions. Need I say these are the majority? I
once had an acquaintance casually imply that if she were in my shoes,
she’d never appear in public and even wondered how I manage to have
normal self-esteem. Another one, who was my classmate at the time,
couldn’t contain her surprise as I reached out for a third mandazi
and went ahead to suggest and conclude I keep off wheat as this was the
reason for my acne. She then proceeded to lecture everyone around on
gluten intolerance. Finally, there was this guy…yes a guy (I’m not in
any way implying that guys aren’t allowed to have opinions on acne or
anything but you catch the drift) who took it upon himself to lecture me
and another friend who’d just a few minutes earlier complained of a
SINGLE pimple (*rolls eyes*story for another day) about how our diets
were the reason for our flawed faces. He went on to proclaim how the
fact that we, the ladies of today, (sexist much?) shun ‘traditional
healthy foods’ and instead prefer ‘modern unhealthy foods’ and hence our
predicament. Needless to say, that conversation did not end well.
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